At Kideo we encourage children's self-reliance
Children are allowed to develop at their own pace and in a safe environment. All educational staff encourage children to try everything themselves. This involves trial and error, and we believe in the power of repetition. By approaching children in a positive way , they learn to enjoy becoming independent. It often happens that a child puts on their pants backward. This is perfectly fine. "You did that so well!" Children's self-confidence and self-esteem increase through compliments. According to Dutch educational psychologist JFW Kok, the parenting relationship is based on trust, love, and respect. When a child feels safe, they will feel confident enough to fully explore their development. Children often indicate when they are ready to try things for themselves. This is also called intrinsic motivation.
Anticipate and motivate
When you notice a child wanting to do something independently, you can anticipate this and motivate them. Every child is different, so pay close attention to their needs. You can explain what's expected, offer tips, demonstrate, or lend a hand. It's okay if it doesn't work right away. Keep practicing, and if it frustrates a child, you can even let it go for a while. Eventually, they'll succeed.